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The Authentic Path
The Authentic Path explores the intersection of leadership, performance science, and ancient wisdom to help you create meaningful impact and lasting success, without losing yourself along the way.
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Oct. 11, 2026
78. How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself: The Science of Self-Compassion & a Powerful Practice
Do you ever notice how much harder you are on yourself than you would ever be on someone you love? You make a mistake, fall short of a goal, or have a difficult interaction, and suddenly your inner critic takes over. No matter how much you accomplish, it can feel like nothing is ever good enough. But what if being kinder to yourself could actually help you grow, perform better, and navigate challenges with greater confidence? In this episode, I'm exploring why self-compassion can feel so diff
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Oct. 4, 2026
77. What Happens When You Finally Stop Pleasing Everyone
What Happens When You Finally Stop Pleasing Everyone There’s a moment right before you say no, set a boundary, or tell someone something they may not want to hear when your whole body braces for the fallout. But what if the disappointment you’re anticipating is much bigger in your mind than it will actually be? In this episode, I’m exploring why so many of us are afraid of disappointing other people, where people-pleasing comes from, and what it costs us when we continually abandon our own nee
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Sept. 27, 2026
76. How to Heal Shame: Why We Feel It & How to Let It Go
How to Heal Shame: Why We Feel It & How to Let It Go Shame is one of the most universal human experiences, and one of the emotions we’re least likely to talk about. Unlike guilt, which tells us we’ve done something wrong, shame can make us believe that something is wrong with us. It can keep us striving for perfection, overfunctioning, hiding parts of ourselves, and fearing what might happen if people really knew us. In this episode, I’m exploring what shame actually is, why our nervous system
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Sept. 20, 2026
75. When Wealth Feels Unsafe: Women, Money, and Power
When Wealth Feels Unsafe: Women, Money, and Power What if your complicated relationship with money isn’t really about money? For generations, women were legally and socially excluded from owning property, controlling their income, accessing credit, and making independent financial decisions. Although many of those laws have changed, their effects can still live within our families, communities, identities, and nervous systems. In this episode, I’m exploring the connection between money, power
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Sept. 13, 2026
74. The Real Reason So Many Women Struggle With Money
The Real Reason So Many Women Struggle With Money You can be smart, capable, successful, and deeply committed to making a difference in the world, and still feel tension, guilt, scarcity, or fear around money. For many women, our relationship with money isn’t just about strategy or mindset. It can be connected to safety, survival, our nervous systems, and patterns that existed long before we were born. In this episode, I’m exploring legacy wounding and money, how inherited patterns can shape o
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Sept. 6, 2026
73. The 2-Step Practice That Helps You Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
The 2-Step Practice That Helps You Stop Being So Hard on Yourself You know that voice that says you should be handling this better. That you should be able to do it all. That you shouldn’t feel this frustrated, overwhelmed, or afraid. But being harder on yourself isn’t always what helps you change. Sometimes, it’s the very thing keeping you stuck. In this episode, I’m sharing a simple two-step practice of compassionate awareness and compassionate redirection to help you notice what’s happening
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Aug. 30, 2026
72. The Pain You Carry Might Not Be Yours: How to Heal Inherited Trauma
The Pain You Carry Might Not Be Yours: How to Heal Inherited Trauma The heaviness. The anxiety. The exhaustion. The patterns you can't quite explain. What if some of what you're carrying didn't actually begin with you? In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend, teacher, therapist, and healer Natalie Gutierrez, author of The Pain We Carry and The Pain We Carry Workbook, for a conversation about inherited trauma, ancestral wisdom, and healing the wounds we carry across generations. Toget
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Aug. 23, 2026
71. What Do You Really Want? How to Find Your Way Back to Yourself
What Do You Really Want? How to Find Your Way Back to Yourself We often think desire is something to suppress. Something selfish. Indulgent. Even irresponsible. But what if your deepest desires aren't pulling you away from the life you're meant to live... what if they're pointing you back to it? In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Dr. Chrissie Ott, founder of Joy Point Solutions and host of the Solving for Joy podcast, for a conversation about one of the most misunderstood forces
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Aug. 16, 2026
70. Your Thoughts Are Lying to You (Here's What to Do Instead)
Your Thoughts Are Lying to You (Here's What to Do Instead) You are not your thoughts. The stories your mind tells you are not always true. Yet so many of us move through life believing every thought, every fear, and every moment of self-doubt without ever questioning it. In this episode, I explore why your brain is wired to focus on the negative, how your nervous system shapes the thoughts you experience, and why positive thinking alone often isn't enough. Most importantly, I share a practica
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Aug. 9, 2026
69. Why Doing Hard Things Will Change Everything for You
Why Doing Hard Things Will Change Everything for You Doing hard things isn't the opposite of healing. In many ways, I believe it's the path to it. If you've been avoiding discomfort, questioning why life feels hard, or wondering whether you're being stretched beyond your capacity, this episode is for you. In this episode, I explore why growth requires discomfort, how intentionally choosing hard things builds resilience, and why the challenges you're facing may be preparing you for the person
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Aug. 2, 2026
68. Can Stress Affect Fertility? The Science of Surrender & Pregnancy | Dr. Erica Bove
Why do so many women get pregnant after they stop trying? Could the missing piece in fertility be more than medicine alone? In this episode, I sit down with board-certified OB-GYN and reproductive endocrinologist Dr. Erica Bove for a conversation about fertility, stress, nervous system regulation, and the powerful intersection of science and intuition. Together, we explore what the research says about emotional safety, why surrender isn't the same as giving up, and how healing often involves m
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July 26, 2026
67. The Courage to Choose Yourself A Conversation on Sovereignty, Self-Abandonment & Inner Peace
What if burnout isn't the problem? What if it's a signal that you've slowly become disconnected from yourself? In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Dr. Sadie Rodriguez, pediatric cardiac intensivist, physician coach, and host of the Soul Shine: The Art of Becoming podcast, for a conversation about sovereignty: the practice of staying connected to your deepest values, truth, and inner knowing. Together, we explore why so many high-achieving, purpose-driven people experience burnout,